Tuesday, March 31, 2009

Saugus boy allegedly denied cancer meds dies

SAUGUS - A 9-year-old Saugus boy whose mother is charged with reckless child endangerment for allegedly withholding her son's cancer medication has died.

A spokesman for the Essex district attorney's office says Jeremy Fraser died Monday.

According to an obituary in The Item, Jeremy Fraser died Monday at the Kaplan Family Hospice house in Danvers.

Jeremy was diagnosed in 2006. Prosecutors say his mother, Kristen Anne LaBrie, canceled at least a dozen appointments for chemotherapy treatment and did not fill at least half of the prescriptions her son was given. She has pleaded innocent.

The parents are estranged.

District attorney's spokesman Steve O'Connell says prosecutors have not ruled out new charges against the mother.

In Jeremy Fraser’s obituary in The Item, it says he was born in Salem and that he was the son of Eric Fraser of Saugus. The obit also says that Jeremy Fraser leaves a brother, an aunt and an uncle. There is no mention of his mother.

In a January interview with The Item Eric Fraser says LaBrie delayed a November court hearing because she spent several days in Miami to watch a New England Patriots game against the Miami Dolphins, which she allegedly wrote about on MySpace.

“When Jeremy was dying in Mass. General Hospital she went to Bermuda for a week,” Fraser said during that January interview. “Who does that when you’re kid’s in the hospital?”

LaBrie was charged after doctors suspected she stopped giving her son medication and contacted authorities.

“She didn’t pick up more than half of the prescriptions,” Fraser said. “When she realized she was going to be in trouble she picked up all of his prescriptions again.”

Fraser said he and LaBrie, who purportedly lost custody of another son who is now a teenager, had been estranged for several months when Jeremy was in his mother’s care. Fraser alleges LaBrie took out a restraining order for a bogus reason at the time.

Lynn Daily Item

The 4 Mistakes Women Make On Facebook Reporting

Teenagers aren't the fastest growing group of Facebook users. That distinction goes to grown up women. But as adults flock to social networking sites, they need to learn a new set of social skills. Sometimes these new rules of etiquette can be confusing.

Lisa Amore of Danvers is a 40-year-old mother, but she's acting a lot like a teenager these days as she checks out her Facebook page. She says she just got hooked and finds it addictive.

Figuring out all the new terms, such as friending, defriending, and flair, can be a challenge for a new user. In fact, many adults have no idea what's appropriate behavior on Facebook.

For example, someone from high school wants to be your friend, but you didn't really like this person back then. Do you have to accept them now?

Sametrias Sena, Ashley Jones, and Anouk Sickman – all students at Pine Manor College in Brookline – say it's OK to ignore that kind of request. They also say you shouldn't feel bad if you decide to defriend someone either.

Sametrias believes that older women understand the networking aspects of Facebook, but can get lost figuring out some of the other aspects of the site.

MISTAKE 1 - THE WALL

A common mistake is what to post on someone's wall. Anouk says older people often get it wrong, and will actually write their comments on their own wall. There's often confusion about privacy as well, with some adults not understanding that a wall posting is available to a much wider audience.

MISTAKE 2 - TMI!

Another error is posting "T-M-I", or too much information. Gigi Johnson, a media expert, says "If you are providing too much information and it's coming out in your status updates, you might be making people uncomfortable."

MISTAKE 3 - MUNDANE OVERLOAD

Then there is the overload of the mundane and the stupid. People who send out endless lists and quizzes, or provide a second by second account of their day. The Pine Manor students agree this is all unnecessary, and they don't need to know what people are eating, or when they are brushing their teeth.

MISTAKE 4 - PICTURES OF OTHERS

Another potential landmine comes with the posting of pictures. Lisa Amore explained that she had "put a lot of pictures on there, and I had people request to take them off. They didn't want their picture posted. I was like, 'Oh my gosh', I didn't think you might be bothered and I genuinely felt bad about it."

So Lisa hit a pothole on the information super highway. She still loves the ride. "It's totally positive. I am loving it."

WBZ News

Legislature aiming to crack down on pension provisions

Leaders expect to save millions

State lawmakers, in an effort to quell public anger, displayed unified determination yesterday to wipe from the books some of the generous deals, custom-tailored laws, and hidden provisions that for decades have allowed some Massachusetts public employees to win enhanced retirement benefits.

Senate President Therese Murray announced that the Senate today planned to quickly approve seven proposals aimed at closing what critics call unfair pension provisions that have fattened the retirement benefits of untold numbers of public employees.

House Speaker Robert A. DeLeo, standing by her side, said the House would follow in the next several weeks.

The effort by Murray and DeLeo essentially repudiates actions taken by the Legislature in the past when its members responded to a variety of pension requests by passing favorable, narrowly crafted legislation. State senators did not have an estimate on how much money the changes would save, but said it would be in the "millions."

"Eliminating loopholes and clarifying the current laws is going to go a long way to restoring public trust and confidence in the system," Murray said. "The time for talk is over, and the time for action is now."

The announcement of the Senate proposal, which does not go as far as a similar plan announced last week by Governor Deval Patrick, means there will almost certainly be an overhaul of the pension laws this year, although there are still questions over details.

Senate Republicans, who also support the legislation, plan to offer several amendments to make the laws tighter, said Senate minority leader Richard Tisei.

"Overall I think it's a good first step from the Senate, but I'd like to see the package strengthened," said Michael Widmer, who is president of the Massachusetts Taxpayers Foundation and has been pushing for changes to the laws for years. "The governor has gone a bit further, and in a constructive way."

Patrick, for example, eliminates the provision that allows state employees to boost their pensions if they are fired. The Senate version only eliminates that provision for elected officials, who are able to boost their pensions if they are not nominated or reelected.

DeLeo said he supported the general parameters, but added that he did not endorse the Senate version because it was not final and there could be changes.

"Conceptually I think that the House is in agreement of many of the items being addressed by the Senate," he said at a press conference in the Senate Reading Room.

Patrick called Murray's announcement "wonderful news" that will help in "modernizing the public pension system and helping to restore public trust."

"Putting an end to abuses in our pension systems is a key part of my reform agenda," Patrick said in a statement. "And I look forward to working closely with my partners in the House and Senate to finalize this important reform bill over the coming weeks."

The Senate bill would remove a provision that credits a full year of service to employees after they have worked as little as one day in that year.

The Senate plan, which would also establish a commission to recommend broader pension changes by Sept. 1, would not apply to future retirees.

Lawmakers have been eager to project that they are busy on major changes. Last week, the Senate approved transportation overhaul, which the House plans to take up next week. The House adopted an ethics reform proposal last week.

The moves come in response to diminishing public confidence in the ability of elected officials to tighten state ethics and lobbying laws. A recent poll of 400 Massachusetts voters found that only 12 percent rated the level of ethics as good or excellent.

The Globe has published stories about town moderators and a library trustee who counted their volunteer service toward pensions, and public officials who began collecting early, enhanced pensions after they were fired from state government.

The Globe reported Sunday that a majority of Revere's 11 part-time city councilors are collecting full pensions while remaining on the municipal payroll and collecting about $25,000 in annual council compensation.

Revere is part of DeLeo's district, a topic that the speaker did not address during the press conference.

The Senate plan would also:


Prohibit municipal officials from being able to establish pension credit for time spent working in nonpaying public jobs.


The law has allowed officials such as two town moderators from Canton and Milton, as well as lobbyist John A. Brennan Jr., to receive pension credit for essentially volunteer work.


Change the current accidental disability retirement benefit for individuals who are injured while temporarily filling in for their supervisor.

Some firefighters in Boston have collected pension benefits based on their bosses' higher pay level after they were injured on the job while subbing for them.


Limit the definition of "compensation" to only wages and salary, and specifically exclude housing benefits, annuities, or the use of motor vehicles.

This would prevent presidents at the state's public colleges and universities from counting housing and transportation allowances as compensation.

William Bulger, a former University of Massachusetts president, fought for this perk and won, increasing his pension by $17,000 to $196,000 a year.


Prohibit public employees from combining their pensions from two separate positions, which can increase the overall pension.

Instead, an individual who is a member of two or more systems must retire separately from each system.


Align MBTA employees' pension with the state system and eliminate the policy that allows employees with 23 years of service to retire with benefits regardless of their age.

The provision has allowed workers to retire in their 40s and then take other jobs while collecting pensions.


Boston Globe

Mid-Life


I've seen two shows lately that went on and on about how mid-life is a great time for women. Just last week Oprah had a whole show on how great menopause will be.....Puhleeeeeeeze! I've had a few thoughts of my own and would like to share them with you. Whether you are pushing 40, 50, 60 (or maybe even just pushing your luck), you'll probably relate.

Mid-life is when the growth of hair on our legs slows down.
This gives us plenty of time to care for our newly acquired mustache.

In mid-life women no longer have upper arms, we have wing spans. We are no longer women in sleeveless shirts; we are flying squirrels in drag.

Mid-life is when you can stand naked in front of a mirror and you can see your rear without turning around.

Mid-life is when you go for a mammogram and you realize that this is the only time someone will ask you to appear topless.

Mid-life is when you want to grab every firm young lovely in a tube top and scream, "Listen honey, even the Roman empire fell and those will too!”

Mid-life brings wisdom to know that life throws us curves and we're sitting on our biggest ones

Mid-life is when you look at your know-it-all, cell phone texting teenager and think: "For this I have stretch marks?"

In mid-life your memory starts to go...In fact the only thing we can retain is water.

Mid-life means that your Body By Jake now includes Legs By Rand McNally -- more red and blue lines than an accurately scaled map of Wisconsin.

Mid-life means that you become more reflective. You start pondering the "big" questions.

What is life? Why am I here?
How much Healthy Choice ice cream can I eat
before it's no longer a healthy choice?


But mid-life also brings with it an appreciation for what is important. We realize that breasts sag, hips expand and chins double, but our loved ones make the journey worthwhile. Would any of you trade the knowledge that you have now, for the body you had way back then? Maybe our bodies simply have to expand to hold all the wisdom and love we've acquired, and that's my philosophy and I'm sticking to it!

Life is Short...

Monday, March 30, 2009

Revere city council makes the most of retirement

Pensions brim with rich rewards

REVERE - A group of elected officials in this working-class city, which struggles daily to provide services under the threat of severe budget cuts, is reaping some extraordinary rewards for public service.

Through deft exploitation of state laws and local ordinances, a majority of Revere's 11 part-time city councilors are collecting full city pensions while remaining on the city payroll and receiving up to $25,000 a year in council compensation, according to a Globe review of public records.

One councilor began collecting his city pension without retiring. Two others left the council, began collecting their retirement benefits, and returned to the council with no interruption or reduction of their pensions. Some have tacked extra years onto pensions with just a few days' work. They also have used annual bonuses that accumulate for multiple years of service, called "longevity pay," to pad their pensions and council salaries simultaneously.

In many ways, the Revere council provides a case study in the myriad tactics employed by some public officials in Massachusetts to maximize retirement benefits. But it also is an extreme case, according to the Globe review. The use of so many different retirement provisions - by retirees still on a public payroll - is rare if not unique, compensation specialists said.

Fred Foulkes, a Boston University professor and director of the university's Human Policy Institute, said Revere city councilors may have seized every available advantage in state and local rules to increase their income.

"There are a lot of these quirks around to take advantage of," he said. "The average citizen doesn't know about things like this."

The pensions are an example of the kind of nest-feathering that has infuriated the public and recently prompted Governor Deval Patrick and some lawmakers to call for an overhaul of the pension system.

The Globe has published stories about town moderators and a library trustee who counted their volunteer service toward pensions, and public officials who began collecting early, enhanced pensions after they were fired from state government.

Revere officials say they are doing nothing improper, and that the provisions they have used to increase their pensions are part of state and local codes.

"I take what is given to me - that's my stand on it," said Councilor George V. Colella, a former Revere mayor.

Seven of the 11 Revere councilors receive pensions, ranging up to $57,000 a year. In addition, they receive base city council pay of $14,650, plus automatic expense stipends of $7,200 (recently reduced by 20 percent, in a nod to the budget crisis), plus the accumulating bonuses for years worked, called longevity bonuses.

The combined take for some councilors is more than $85,000 a year, in a city of 55,000 people where the median income hovers around $45,000 annually. By comparison, Malden, with about the same population and demographics, pays councilors $17,500. Only one Malden councilor receives a city pension.

Some of the Revere councilors built up pensions while serving as full-time city employees; others earned pensions based largely on serving as council and School Committee members. Two of the retirees served the city as both mayor and councilor; one as only a councilor; one as a firefighter; one as a police officer; and one served in the state's employment training department.

"Revere may be unique in electing so many retirees to the city council," said Anthony T. Zambuto, one of the few councilors who does not receive a public pension.

Councilor Arthur Guinasso, for example, retired as a councilor in 2002 at age 62, began receiving a $10,000 annual pension, and then returned to the council two years later, collecting both his pension and the councilor compensation package, which together equals a combined $31,700. Guinasso did not return telephone calls.

Councilor Robert J. Haas Jr. "retired" from his career as a mayor and councilor in 2005 at age 62, and just kept going, never breaking his service on the council. The only change for Haas was that he began drawing his $47,500 pension on top of his councilor's pay and expenses of about $25,000.

These moves are legal because city councilors and other elected officials in Massachusetts are exempt from the restrictions and financial penalties the law imposes on most government retirees who want to continuing working and drawing paychecks beyond their retirement. The law imposes no such restrictions on retirees who hold elected office.

The state rules also allow City Council members to count their part-time, elected jobs as full years of pension credit. The council usually meets three times a month, for as long as five hours per session. On average, that is about four hours a week throughout the year. They also spend various amounts of time on constituent work.

Councilors bristled at the suggestion they are taking advantage of the system.

"Everybody says it's part-time work," said Ira Novoselsky, a councilor who combined state employment and a stint on the city planning board to retire at age 55 with an annual pension of about $30,000, on top of his council compensation of more than $26,500. "But you don't get calls at two o'clock in the morning from [angry] constituents."

Revere City Council members have also used the so-called one-day rule to boost their pensions, in a fashion similar to other officials around the state. It allows public officials to collect a full year of credit toward a pension for as little as one day of work in a calendar year.

The rule was devised by the state Legislature, whose departing members typically gain an extra year of credit when they remain in office for a few days in January while awaiting the swearing-in of their successors.

In Revere, the terms of mayor, councilors, and School Committee members also extend into the first week of January. (Two out of six School Committee members in Revere also receive city pensions, plus pay and health benefits.)

Haas took advantage of the one-day rule in 2005, boosting his eventual pension by about $1,500 a year for life by serving two days as a councilor in January.

Colella used it three times in his long political career, twice when leaving office as mayor and once when leaving office as councilor, allowing him to ring up an extra $5,000 in his annual pension for 10 days' work - for life. Since he began collecting a pension 17 years ago, the one-day rule in Colella's case has cost the city about $85,000.

Colella said the one-day rule was spawned by the Legislature.

"I had nothing to do with it," he said.

But another key benefit was established by the council. The council voted in 2000 to boost members' pay - and their eventual pensions - by giving themselves automatic annual longevity bonuses based on the length of their public employment. Longevity pay is practically unheard of for city councilors and other elected officials in surrounding municipalities, according to a survey of those cities.

The Revere city council also then further enhanced the benefits of longevity. Councilors voted, in the same year, to allow longevity payments they receive to be used in calculating their pensions. Longevity bonuses are awarded at $500 a year for the first nine years of service, and then boosted by $200 for every year after that, up to a maximum of $6,300.

Haas, for example, receives about $2,500 a year of his $47,500 annual pension in recognition for the longevity he amassed as a councilor and mayor in the 1980s and 1990s. And he is using those same years a second time to collect $3,700 a year in longevity pay as a councilor.

Haas said he did not realize councilors were getting the advantages of longevity bonuses twice, until it was pointed out by the Globe.

"I think we have to address it," he said. "It may be a small amount in dollars, but it's symbolic. If it is wrong, we will do something about it."

Boston Globe

The Dentist

A guy and a girl meet at a bar. They get along so well that they decide to go to the girl's place. A few drinks later, the guy takes off his shirt and then washes his hands.

He then takes off his trousers and washes his hands again. The girl has been watching him and says, 'You must be a dentist.' The guy, surprised, says 'Yes ... how did you figure that out?'

'Easy,' she replied, 'you keep washing your hands.'

One thing led to another and they make love. After they are done, the girl says, 'You must be a good dentist.'

The guy, now with a boosted ego says, 'Sure, I'm a good dentist, how did you figure that out?'

'Didn't feel a thing.'

Senior Moment

Friday, March 27, 2009

Demotivational Poster

Fergie turns 35 today!


Stacy Ann Ferguson (born March 27, 1975), better known by her stage name Fergie, is an American singer, songwriter, and actress. She was a member of the kids' television series Kids Incorporated, and the girl group Wild Orchid. Ferguson was also a co-host of the television show Great Pretenders. She is a vocalist for the hip hop/pop group the Black Eyed Peas, as well as a solo artist, having released her debut album, The Dutchess, in September 2006. The album has so far spawned five Billboard Hot 100 top 5 singles (3 of which went to number one) making The Dutchess the seventh album from a female artist to spawn five Top 5 hits.

Ferguson was born in Hacienda Heights, California, the daughter of Terri Jackson (née Gore) and Patrick Ferguson. She has a younger sister, Dana, who is an actress. Her parents are of Irish, Scottish, Mexican and Native American descent. The daughter of devout Catholic school teachers, she was raised in a suburban area with strict Roman Catholic values while attending Mesa Robles Middle school and Glen A. Wilson High School. She is quoted as saying that as a child she was so hyperactive, doctors wanted to put her on Ritalin until her mom vetoed the idea. Through dance school, her mom found her an agent and voiceover work, providing the voices for Lucy and Sally in Peanuts cartoons. From 1984 to 1989, she spent summers performing chart hits on the TV show Kids Incorporated. All that time she was a cheerleader, straight-A student and a spelling bee champion, as well as a Girl Scout.

One of my favorites - Big Girls Don't Cry

WEEKEND LOVE FORECAST:

ARIES: Act out of character. Your alter ego will be ultra-attractive to the object of your affection. TAURUS: Love emboldens you to cross new boundaries. GEMINI: You'll enjoy the drama of an exciting romantic twist. CANCER: You'll find love where your mind is challenged and your eye for beauty is stimulated. LEO: You don't have to boast. Your date already thinks you're swell. VIRGO: Though you and a potential love are not exactly matched in your areas of interest, there is enough common ground to carry you through a truly fun date. LIBRA: Your pals may be bored of your fascination with a love interest. Keep friendly conversation to topics you'll all enjoy. SCORPIO: Try not to plan too much and you'll be able to take advantage of spontaneous opportunities. SAGITTARIUS: Give new people a chance. You'll probably end up liking someone a lot more than you expected. CAPRICORN: You're a fantastic listener and will get lots of juicy stories, as well as finding out the secret to winning your love's deep affection. AQUARIUS: With your expert diplomacy you'll solve a sticky relationship problem. PISCES: Give equal time and attention to platonic and romantic love.

COUPLE OF THE WEEKEND: Taurus and Virgo are two earth signs who will connect in common humor over the next few days. The things they'll laugh at together may not make sense to anyone else and it's that insider feeling that bonds them firmly. To let down emotional guards and be understood feels so wonderful to these two that they could make a commitment to spend more time in each other's company.

Thursday, March 26, 2009

The Flasher

ASTROLOGICAL INSIGHTS FOR A MEMORABLE WEEK -- PART FOUR:

Today's new moon in Aries is just one of many exciting aspects involving the first sign of the zodiac that will occur this week. The energy is fresh and new and it's apparent in the way we feel inside to the way we talk to one another to the way we love one another. Take the initiative to make a few strong memories. Here are some suggestions for CAPRICORN: You have an opportunity to start a tradition. You're so wonderful at organizing events, creating an atmosphere and a context that will be meaningful to all involved. There is probably a person or happening you'd like to commemorate, so put your creative energy into making this happen. AQUARIUS: Your friends come from many different generations, cultures, socio-economic situations and circles of interest. Note this moment in time by recording your relationships well. Get together with as many different people as you can and take pictures. PISCES: Get closure on old situations before you welcome in the new ones. You will be careful to tie up loose ends in a way that helps everyone involved. Your attention to ending projects in the proper way will bring magical and memorable energy to your new endeavors.

It is about time...

I can't believe she was even married to this guy!?!



Marg Helgenberger files for divorce

After taking time apart from her husband of nearly 20 years last December, "CSI" star Marg Helgenberger has filed for divorce from Alan Rosenberg.

ET has obtained divorce papers filed by Helgenberger in Los Angeles County Superior Court on Tuesday.

In the papers, Helgenberger cited "irreconcilable differences" as the reason for the split with Rosenberg, who she married in 1989. Rosenberg is the president of the Screen Actors Guild.

Helgenberger is seeking spousal support and wishes to split attorney fees.

Wednesday, March 25, 2009

ASTROLOGICAL INSIGHTS FOR A MEMORABLE WEEK -- PART THREE:

Mercury's movement into Aries helps us celebrate this first full week, and a memorable time. Take the initiative to make a few strong memories of your own. Here are some suggestions for LIBRA: You're the consummate team builder. You have great social foresight -- you know when two people simply must meet and you make the introduction. The world is forever altered because of the people you bring together, and that's a feat to remember. SCORPIO: Others around you focus their excitement externally. You may decide to use this star power for your internal process. Like a rainmaker, you retreat to your inner sanctuary and bring the heavens -- not to mention your own life and the lives of those around you -- into alignment through quiet meditation. SAGITTARIUS: In order to keep some semblance of normal life you can't always act on your impulses for fun and adventure. But this week is different. In fact, everyone is depending on you to come up with zany tangents and spur of the moment parties. Following your natural inclination for spontaneity you will create one memorable scenario after another. Bring your camera everywhere!

It's Wednesday...

Reginald Kenneth Dwight is 62

Sir Elton Hercules John CBE (born Reginald Kenneth Dwight on 25 March 1947) is an English singer-songwriter, composer and pianist.

In his four-decade career, John has been one of the dominant forces in rock and popular music, especially during the 1970s. He has sold over 200 million records, making him one of the most successful artists of all time. He has more than 50 Top 40 hits including seven consecutive No. 1 U.S. albums, 59 Top 40 singles, 16 Top 10, four No. 2 hits, and nine No. 1 hits. He has won five Grammy awards and one Academy Award. His success has had a profound impact on popular music and has contributed to the continued popularity of the piano in rock and roll. In 2004, Rolling Stone ranked him #49 on their list of the 100 greatest artists of all time.

After failing lead vocalist auditions for King Crimson and Gentle Giant, Dwight answered an advertisement in the New Musical Express placed by Ray Williams, then the A&R manager for Liberty Records. At their first meeting, Williams gave Dwight a stack of lyrics written by Bernie Taupin, who had answered the same ad. Dwight wrote music for the lyrics, and then mailed it to Taupin, and thus began a partnership that continues to this day. In 1967, what would become the first Elton John/Bernie Taupin song, "Scarecrow", was recorded; when the two first met, six months later, Dwight was going by the name "Elton John", in homage to Bluesology saxophonist Elton Dean and Long John Baldry.

Some of the characteristics of John's musical talent include an ability to quickly craft melodies for the lyrics of songwriting partner Bernie Taupin, his former rich tenor (now baritone) voice, his classical and gospel-influenced piano, the aggressive orchestral arrangements of Paul Buckmaster among others and the flamboyant fashions, outlandishly excessive eyeglasses, and on-stage showmanship, especially evident during the 1970s.

John was inducted into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame in 1994. He has been heavily involved in the fight against AIDS since the late 1980s, and was knighted in 1998. He entered into a civil partnership with David Furnish on 21 December 2005 and continues to be a champion for LGBT social movements. On 9 April 2008, John held a benefit concert for Hillary Clinton's presidential campaign, raising $2.5 million. In 2008, Billboard magazine released a list on which are present Hot 100's top 100 artists and Elton John reached #3, preceded by Madonna and The Beatles.

In January 1987, John underwent throat surgery to remove potentially cancerous nodules from his vocal cords while on tour, a necessity he originally claimed was due to an infection, but later claimed was the result of excessive drug abuse.

The problems with his voice can clearly be heard in his raspy singing on the Live In Australia album (released 1987). He made a full recovery from the surgery, but he continued to use illegal drugs until 1990. The surgery in 1987 also had an after-effect on John's voice, and he found that he could no longer sing in falsetto as well as he previously could, and that he now sang in a lower range. During an interview with James Lipton, John had claimed to embrace this new tone, feeling it gave a more "masculine" quality that contrasted with his earlier work. Lipton commented on the "swooping falsetto" on "Goodbye Yellow Brick Road" to which John replied, "...which I don't have anymore."

OK, so I was never very good at picking just one song by Elton...yes, he's my favorite. Aside from Your Song, the other songs I picked are less popular but beautiful. I've been to a few of his concerts and the last 3 I've never seen him play live, not even on the DVD's that I bought of his concerts. Hope you like them, I love them all. For the record, my favorite song is Tiny Dancer, but it's already on this blog somewhere.

Your Song


Harmony


Blues for Baby and Me


High Flying Bird

Tuesday, March 24, 2009

ASTROLOGICAL INSIGHTS FOR A MEMORABLE WEEK -- PART TWO:

The planets are rallying together to celebrate this first full week of Aries and it will be a memorable time indeed. Take the initiative to make a few strong memories of your own. Here are some suggestions for CANCER: Transitions are always exciting, scary and illuminating for you. While letting go of one situation and reaching for another you are a free-floating agent trusting in the universe. It's a vivid feeling, so make a leap. LEO: Performing gives you the extra energetic edge that will etch your experience into your psyche. You don't need a stage to perform. A one-on-one meeting is a kind of performance for you, and so is a sales call. Take advantage of this special astrological period by putting yourself in the position to perform. VIRGO: Spring cleaning isn't just a saying to you -- it's a lifestyle. And it's not just about dust, either. You take an inventory of all you have, like a person who's getting ready to move. This is the week to delve into cleaning mode. You'll redefine yourself in the process, and what could be more memorable than a new you?

Facebook photo convicts school aide of drinking charge


What: Facebook photograph shows part-time teaching aide at Ohio high school with three cheerleaders holding Smirnoff bottles.

When: The Court of Appeals of Ohio, 12th District, rules on Feb. 9.

Outcome: Conviction for allowing minors to possess alcohol upheld.

What happened, according to court documents and other sources: Most people are merely embarrassed by photos a friend tosses onto Facebook. Mary Ellen Hause went to jail because of them.

Hause, who worked as a part-time teaching aide at Springboro High School, near Dayton, Ohio, was photographed in her basement posing with three cheerleaders holding Smirnoff bottles. The cheerleaders were friends with her son.

That photo, of course, ended up on Facebook. And Springboro High School Resource Officer Sgt. Don Wilson, who regularly poked around students' Facebook accounts, discovered it and turned it over to the local police.

Hause was charged with three counts of violating Ohio code 4301.69, which says no person "shall knowingly allow any underage person to remain in or on the place while possessing or consuming beer or intoxicating liquor," unless a parent or legal guardian is present and approves. (Underage person is defined as someone under 21 years old.)

State prosecutors alleged that Hause allowed the cheerleaders to consume Smirnoff, Sparks and beer at her home and presented testimony from two of the minors who claimed that Hause participated in drinking games with them.

A second Facebook photo from the same gathering showed another minor holding a can of Sparks, a caffeinated alcoholic beverage.

For her part, Hause said that she didn't know at first that the cheerleaders were drinking, and when she found out, she kicked them out.

"I went downstairs and I saw the kids down there," she said, according to a report by the local ABC affiliate. "I sat on the couch and the girls -- they know me because of working at the school -- they all jumped in my lap. And I did take the picture and I didn't notice anything right away."

Her testimony proved to be less than convincing: a jury convicted her and she was sentenced to 30 days in jail, a $500 fine, 10 days of trash pickup and three years of probation that prohibits her from drinking alcohol or having it in her house.

"What should have happened when you discovered that these kids were drinking is that immediate action should have taken place ... that all of these parents should have been notified and that your actions should have been very, very different," trial judge Donald Oda II said, according to the transcript.

Hause appealed, saying the no-alcohol-on-probation rule was an abuse of the judge's discretion, that there should have been one charge instead of three and that the law is unconstitutionally overbroad. On Feb. 9, an appeals court upheld her conviction and sentence.

The Dayton Daily News reported last year that the school decided not to punish the cheerleaders.

Excerpts from the recent opinion from the Court of Appeals of Ohio, 12th District, Warren County:

"Appellant argues the trial court abused its discretion in imposing as conditions of community control that she not consume or possess alcohol and that she not have alcohol in her household. Appellant argues these conditions do not relate to the crimes for which she was found guilty.

The trial court has broad discretion in imposing conditions of community control pursuant to R.C. 2929.25(A)(1), which governs the authority of the trial court to impose one or more community control sanctions in misdemeanor violations, including residential, nonresidential, and financial sanctions, and any other conditions the court considers appropriate. We will not reverse such conditions imposed absent an abuse of the trial court's discretion.

A trial court's discretion in imposing community control conditions is not limitless, however. In determining whether a condition reasonably relates to the three probationary goals -- doing justice, rehabilitating the offender, and insuring good behavior -- a court should consider whether the condition (1) is reasonably related to rehabilitating the offender, (2) has some relationship to the crime convicted, and (3) relates to conduct which is criminal or reasonably related to future criminality and serves the statutory ends of probation. In addition, the community control conditions cannot be overly broad so as to unnecessarily impinge upon the probationer's liberty.

After reviewing the entire record, we find the trial court acted within its discretion by concluding the restrictions on alcohol use and possession as conditions of appellant's community control, as applied to appellant only, are reasonably related to rehabilitating the offender, have a reasonable relationship to the crime charged, are reasonably related to future criminality and serve the statutory ends of probation. Appellant was convicted of an alcohol-related offense-allowing juveniles to consume alcohol in her home. If she is not allowed to possess or consume alcohol or have alcohol in her home, it is less likely that juveniles will consume alcohol in her home ..."

Judgment affirmed.

Monday, March 23, 2009

ASTROLOGICAL INSIGHTS FOR A MEMORABLE WEEK -- PART ONE:

With so much astrological activity going on this week, we're like young children experiencing certain things for the first and most memorable time. Isn't memory tricky for humans? What we experience in real time as dull or maybe even terrible, we might at a later date look back upon fondly. This astrologically eventful week is an ideal time to make a few memories of your own. Here are some suggestions for ARIES: Go somewhere new that you've always been intrigued by and never had the nerve or the occasion to enter. Bring a friend -- preferably someone who shares your irreverent sense of humor! TAURUS: Talk to the person who intrigues you. It could be a stranger on the street, someone who works in your neighborhood or perhaps a celebrity you've wanted to learn more about. In the latter case, write a letter or e-mail just to see what might happen. You very well may get a response! GEMINI: Decide what is important to you and then create a ritual to solidify the significance of it on your psyche. Elements for your ritual could include singing, the burning of candles or wild dancing.