Success:

At age 4 success is......not piddling in your pants.
At age 12 success is.....having friends.
At age 17 success is.....having a drivers license.
At age 35 success is.....having money.
At age 50 success is.....having money.
At age 70 success is.....having a drivers license.
At age 75 success is.....having friends.
At age 80 success is.....not piddling in your pants.